nephew 2moro. turkle.
i don't ring my lost love, S, because I love her. So, because she is loved by someone, the responsibility falls on her to promote the love by giving it conversation. If she loved me then I would ring her, but as I love her and she not me, then for me to ring her would be sad, as in pathetic.
She has made it clear that she only wants me for my ability to provide gabo. If i provide gabo, say $100 worth, she will provide me with roughly 2 hours non contact talking. This is the price of the deal that is the only deal offered to me.